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BabyDru's Family

I have been playing around with my family tree since my oldest had a homeowrk assignment about her ancestors a couple years ago. This has led to some interseting conversations with people I have never met, however, we are related somehow. It now has my 12th great-grandparents. So we are showing over 400 years of the Dru family you are going to join:

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The Baby Wish!!!

Yesterday was a difficult day for me. My Wife was wonderful trying to make it less stressful so I could enjoy the beauty of the day. My Oldest Daughter turned 13 years old. I have gone from 4 children in the house to 3 children and a teenager. For the past 13 years there has only been one constant in my life, Meg. She is the only person that has always been there no matter where I moved, she went with me, no matter what I had to get done, she has been there with me. She has been to 6 diffrent schools she has lived in 3 diffrent country's, she has lived in 3 different states. She is the reason I decided that when I got to NY I would settle down and plan on not leaving. She deserves this.
Yesterday this little girl turned into a teenager, It was difficult for me just because I looked at the past 13 years and I wondered what happened to the time from the nurse teaching me how to bath her to buying her maxi-pads and Make-up.
I will tell you now I am lucky to have a daughter like her. Lacrosse try-outs start today, so for her birthday she got a new lacrosse stick for herself and one for me. Yes it was her birthday present, I can now spend time with her teaching the game and skills she needs to have fun at the best sport ever!!!
Meg, I am proud of you and I love you very much!!!
To BabyDru, Please don't grow up to fast and like your oldest sister, Enjoy the time you have with your Mother and me.

Have I told you lately how much I love you??

Is my husband not the cutest with his posts? I am by far the luckiest woman in the world.

And I feel his pain - people give me some crazy looks when I say this is our 5th child. No matter that it's a blended family .... and because of that I have been doing a lot more research on large families - we both came from 2 and only had 2 each before we were married. FIVE is a bit different. I have become an expert in multi-child space organizing, laundry delegation, making leftovers last, and creating fun for pennies. And you know what? I have never been happier!! I love all of my children - those I birthed and those I am now helping to raise. It has not been without it's challenges of course - money needs to go a lot further, we have ex's and their issues to contend with and stepsiblings to not always get along like the Brady's portrayed. But when it works - it's magic. So here's to all those parents of lots of gifts from God, those who they had a hand in creating and those they have a hand in raising.

Number 5, Almost here

Although it is a Brady bunch family of the 21st century it is going to still be 5 children. 2 mine, 2 hers and one ours. The 5th one will be here in 3 short months which is already making people look at me funny. A year ago when I was asked how many children I had and I would reply with the safe number 2, people would respond with, "wow, you are so lucky." After a wedding increasing that number to four and finding out that MommyDru is Pregnant again I now reply to the question, "Fifth one is on its way." You would not believe the responses I get to that. Everyone looks at me like I am crazy.
I do not understand this reaction at all, is more that 2 kids really that bad? Why do you look at me like I am crazy to be excited about having my fifth child living in the house?
My Mother was one of 6 and my grandmother was one of 11, is there a chance that I just like being a parent and I believe that I am good at it so bringing in another is exciting?
Yes this will be one more sitting at the table after school to get help with homework, another trip to some sort of activity on Saturday or Sunday. Another college tuition.
I get special time with each of these children, dinner for me and one of them might be more of a dinner with one of them and the baby and may be dinner with two of them. However, I believe that none of these kids lack special time or any needs and they do have a lot of their wants.
Yes this is just a rant because there are actually people out there that believe we shouldn't have another one. I actually had to explain to a ten year old why we chose not to have an abortion because she overheard a couple adults saying that we had to many. I am not on any state funding and all my kids have health benefits and see the Doctor on a regular basis. So we get cereal in a Bag instead of a box, but that is just an easy way to save a few bucks!!!

Baby Registry

From what I hear there is going to be a baby shower happening for Baby Dru. Well, really, is it for Baby Dru or mommy Dru? I can never tell. We have registered though Amazon.com for the shower. I never realized how difficult this was. Picking presents that we are going to need for a baby. Since both me and Mommy Dru had two children each prior to our marriage we thought that would be enough and got rid of all the baby stuff we had in storage, then hey there you go, the stick showed a plus sign and we thought, "hey, we need all that baby stuff again."
I am going to work on the registry though out the week with Mommy Dru and post it on the blog this weekend. And yes Amazon.com, what do you expect from a couple that does web design?
Guess what, I am going to also set it up so I get a commision off the site so hey deal with it.

My Fear of Raising a Son

I have been a father of Girls for almost 13 years now. I have been thinking a lot lately about the difference in Boys and girls and how it will be different with a son (other than potty training). I have always stressed a girl can do anything a boy can do, which I truley believe. I have never pushed and always encouraged any activity no matter if it was designed for a boy or a girl. I have noticed that until Puberty hits I have had some very tomboyish girls in the house. But once that nasty thing called Puberty visits it seams I lose footballs and the Make-up on the bathroom counter reproduces faster than rabbits.


I was thinking about this the other day, I am going to have a son, what are the chances that I may have a football for a very long time now? How about playing with bugs? One of the problems I do forsee is I have taught my girls that Girls are better than boys at most everything they want to try and accomplish. This is something else I firmly believe, I mean come on they bleed for a week at a time and still live, how can a boy top that? But what happens the first time that one of the girls says to Baby Dru, "Dad said I am better than you because I am a girl"


I guess I can always tell him, "That is what life is, always let the woman believe she is better."